Advice On How
To Cope When Your Loved One Leaves You
By Steve Hill
I am sure that we have all been through the
nightmare of been dumped by our boyfriend or girlfriend. At times it is something
that we were expecting, however more often than not it comes as a big shock.
In this situation it is very hard to take, and in this article I give free
tips on how to cope in this situation.
I have had a number of girlfriends, most of
whom have decided to end the relationship. As a teenager even though it wounded
my pride, I have to say that it did not really bother me. I at that stage
had never met anyone who really lets say, did it for me. In fact most of
these girls/women were quite annoying. They were either:
Too clingy and wanted to see me everyday, wanted
me to call them seemingly every hour and became upset when I wanted to see
my friends.
A crier, what I mean by that is that they would
cry over the smallest things and were basically too emotional.
The jealous type. I am not one to cheat, however
these type of girls would always be accusing me of seeing or fancying somebody
else.
Untrustworthy. These are girls who I just knew
were only interested in playing the field and who were basically only worth
dating for a bit of fun.
I then met when I was around twenty-one a girl
who seemed too good to be true. She was none of the above and we got on so
well it was scary.
All of my life, I had had a dream to live by
the coast as I love the sea. I was from a big city and was not particularly
happy living in this fast pace of life. I yearned for a quite and tranquil
existence.
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After around two years of being with this new
girlfriend, we decided that we would live together and that we would make
my dream move. I was very happy and we moved to the southwest coast of England
to the county of Devon.
I was very happy in my new home but my girlfriend
soon became homesick. She missed her friends, parents and the family pets.
We were now seeing each other basically all day everyday, where we had only
spent around four nights a week together when we had lived in the city. We
did not know anyone who lived in Devon and things began to become
strained.
My girlfriend was now becoming quite moody and
often stated that she wanted to move back. I certainly did not want to and
hoped that she would soon grow to love Devon, as I did, and that she would
meet new friends. I was still very happy to live with her and felt sure that
it was just teething pains.
One day I arrived back at the bungalow where
we lived, after doing some food shopping. I opened the door which to my surprise
had been locked. Her car was not there and I wondered where she may have
gone to. As I entered the living room, to my horror I found that many things
were no longer there. Pictures I had purchased, the dvd player, the stereo
and many ornaments had been taken. I looked around the rest of the bungalow
and found many other items also missing.
It suddenly dawned on me that she had left me,
and also taken as you have read a lot of stuff. I did not care about any
of the items but was gutted that she had obviously dumped me. I was sat on
a chair and could not stop crying.
I then decided to phone her but half way through
dialing the number I stopped myself. I sat down and thought about what I
may have done wrong. I could not think of anything major, I had not hit her,
I had not cheated on her, the only thing I could think of is that I had not
agreed to move back to the city with her.
I decided not to call her and started to think
about all of the things I disliked about her, for example her mood swings.
There were to be no more tears and instead I was going to celebrate being
single by drinking a few beers and by ordering a pizza. She hated me drinking
beer, but now I could.
I thought in a positive way about the future
and was determined to stick it out in Devon. I will meet somebody else I
thought to myself.
It was not easy to think in this way and I did
miss her, I had after all dated her for a long time. She did not seem to
miss me however as she did not phone me once to see how I was. This made
me angry and actually made me think that I could probably do better. How
would she have reacted if I had done something wrong, if this is how she
is going to react when I haven't, I thought to myself. I would have at least
thought she could have given me an ultimatem, for example I will leave you
if you do not move back with me. Problem is what would I have done then.
As luck has it, I actually met my present fiancee
the day after this all happened. We now have a child together and I could
not be happier.
In conclusion, always think in a positive way,
if you have done in your own mind nothing wrong, there is nothing to worry
about. The person who has dumped you is probably not worth it anyway as the
whole ethos of a proper relationship, is about support and about sticking
together through the good times and the bad. If they are going to walk at
the first sign of trouble they are probably not the person you thought they
were.
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